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Spiritual
Arrogance
If you’ve spent any time on social media, thousands of
people present themselves as health and wellness gurus, spiritual teachers, and
lifestyle coaches. Some people are qualified to give advice, but most are not.
They have no degrees or special training. Even if they are certified in
alternative modalities, they are not qualified experts. They are not licensed
medical, social work, or counseling practitioners. They are not trained
ministers, rabbis, imams, or gurus.
Most people have good intentions and want to help
other people. Others are looking to cash in in some way. But some people have
convinced themselves that their way is the only way. They believe they are so
enlightened that their beliefs, practices, and advice are superior to anyone
else’s. People like this suffer from “spiritual arrogance.” They have allowed
their sense of superiority to inflate their ego. They enjoy the power and
control that they exert over others. They crave fame and notoriety. They want
to be admired and adored. Please be aware that these people are dangerous and
have the potential to do irreparable harm to others. Think of the cult leaders
(like Jim Jones of the People’s Temple and Charles Dederich of Synanon) who led
people down the path of death and destruction, all in the name of healthier
lifestyles, spiritual growth, and helping others.
Never take medical advice from someone who is not a
licensed medical doctor. I was appalled when someone boasted on their blog that
they had discouraged a woman from getting surgery that might have helped her
condition. Practicing medicine without a license can lead to patient harm and
stiff penalties in America. Even licensed registered nurses have been in legal trouble
for this.
Never take advice about psychiatric medications and
treatments from someone who is not a licensed psychiatrist. These powerful
drugs can be dangerous if not administered correctly. And people can’t suddenly
stop taking them without side effects and adverse reactions. Electroconvulsive
therapy (ECT) seems barbaric and old-fashioned, but it is still used
effectively for treating depression and other disorders. And new treatments are
being developed.
Is the person you follow stable, healthy, and whole?
Or do they constantly complain of depression, fatigue, an inability to
function, and overwhelming anxiety? These people need professional help. They
are not healthy enough to advise others. As the adage goes, “Physician, heal
thyself!” Gently encourage them to get help.
It is human nature to help and support one another,
but be aware that people can unintentionally harm others with unsound and
unqualified advice. Don’t be a victim. Think and do your research before taking
someone’s advice on the Internet. Better yet, stick with professionals that you
trust.
Dawn Pisturino
